We made it
through one whole month of Tom being away on his mission! That’s a
milestone for us, and a blink of an eye for most people. I have to
admit, it has not gone by quickly, or
not as quickly as I would prefer. We are, however, adjusting and
getting used to him being so far away. We have settled in to a new
routine that is a little different. There is a void in our family,
though and that weekly e-mail is not quite filling it the
same way as if he were here. Don’t get me wrong… we love, love, love
the e-mails and completely look forward to the next one each week. Even
Em and David get really excited when the e-mail finally comes. I
really do miss coming home from work each day and
just knowing Tom would be there, usually in the living room, playing
video games with Toby on his lap! The thing that makes it all OK
though, is thinking about what he is doing and knowing he is learning,
growing, maturing and just becoming a more worldly
person. It’s like a co-worker of mine told me the other day…. when you
think about a person or “kid” Tom’s age going out on a limb and
dedicating himself to something so much bigger than himself, you just
have to be a little awed! In today’s culture where
we tend to spoil our kids, protect them, take care of them much, much
longer all of the time, to think of a 19 year old wanting to do
something like this is pretty amazing. We are really proud of him and
will continue to cheer him on and will look forward
to those e-mails on Tuesdays! Hey… 1 month down and only 23 to go!
I am glad the first month is over for you guys. It is a huge milestone! The sacrifice is truly worth it as they gain so much more. You can't help but be proud!
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